1. No DRAMA. Period. If you have issues, bring them to Heartseeker, and expect a pow-wow. If you don't want any sort of resolution, keep it to yourself. That said, keep your issues (with other people) out of the room, or keep yourself out of the room.
2. Common sense is king here. Do not abuse it. Neither you, nor your character is God, don't pretend that either of those people are.
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